Eclipse

Abstract

Pregnancy loss, a prevalent yet often hidden phenomenon, affects one in five pregnancies, triggering emotional challenges like depression and post-traumatic stress disorder in women. This research seeks to shed light on the unaddressed experiences of couples dealing with pregnancy loss and proposes a design solution to foster positive coping mechanisms. The overarching goal is to create tools that enhance the pregnancy loss journey for affected couples.

The research journey commences with an exploration of how partners navigate pregnancy loss individually and collectively. A comprehensive investigation incorporating literature study, expert consultations, and context-mapping sessions with five couples was conducted. The grief experienced both, as a couple and individually, was analysed, revealing the absence of established grieving patterns and rituals specific to pregnancy loss. Additionally, the dynamics and communication within romantic partnerships were impacted, highlighting the need for tailored coping strategies. Lastly, there seemed to be a difference between the perceived experience of loss between the pregnant and the non-pregnant partner, related to the physical act of being pregnant.

The absence of the physical component of pregnancy emerged as a distinct factor influencing the difference in the perceived experience of loss between partners. For the pregnant partner, the mind-body connection becomes disrupted, as a result of the emotional distress such as guilt, blame, and detachment. This disconnection also hindered effective communication between partners and their surroundings, necessitating the creation a design facilitating support through providing the space and the tools to reconnect to the physical body.

The subsequent design phase explored various mediums for achieving the design goal, ultimately culminating in the conception of Eclipse, a transformative theatrical ritual. This ritual consists of three sessions, each centred around a distinct theme, employing elements like warm water, hot stones, cocoons, experience stories, and humming singing to facilitate the reconnection process.

Throughout the design process, numerous evaluation activities were undertaken, including ideation sessions, prototyping, and expert consultations. Eclipse was evaluated through a trial with three experience experts, confirming its alignment with the established interaction qualities and design goal.

In reflection, this thesis not only challenges the conventional Western medical approach but also advocates for a more holistic consideration of mind-body connections. By incorporating non-traditional elements into the coping process, this research counters assumptions regarding the topic of spirituality in research. The envisioned future involves a society that actively listens to the narratives of pregnancy loss survivors, granting them the space and time to grieve without judgment. The now silenced experience stories will be heard.

In conclusion, this research journey navigates the uncharted territory of pregnancy loss experiences, unveiling the complexities faced by couples. The design solution, Eclipse, stands as a testament to the power of transformational rituals in facilitating the healing process. This work contributes to destigmatising pregnancy loss grief, fostering a compassionate and empathetic environment for individuals and couples on this challenging journey.